You know that image you have in your head, the one where he shakes his head at you when you've screwed up, a bit like a loving grandad, wanting to discipline but not quite able?
Well....You've got it all wrong.
Think back to those times, when your so upset you could explode, when all the emotion gets too much and you feel you cant make sense of it and you just want to scream from deep within your very soul.
Your on the right lines. This is how your making him feel.
What do you mean when? You know very well when, when you willingly participate in activities that he specifically asked you not too. Imagine how you'd feel if you asked your children to stop indulging themselves in things that waste their time, only they never listened properly and decided to go ahead all the time.